How do u derive ur happiness ? --1

When do u feel happy? How do u derive ur happiness? From Love? What do u expect from your spouse? U want her/him to be with u and extend all her/his love for u?

These were the questions that come to my mind very frequently. Does love mean hooking on to each other and spending the large possible time together? What if u and ur wife are in different locations?? What if u can't see her for a couple months..And even when u meet u can be with her/him only for a couple of hours?

Do u speak daily on phone? At the end of the day and discuss how it went?? What if she has to go somewhere and can't call u at one night? What if she is busy with her work and messages u that she cant cal u today and will call next morning?? Where as U were desperately waiting for her call from 4:30 PM, when u called her up and she replied that she was out with friends..??

As I told u many a time before I get philosophical many atime and who else is there to express myself than u?

Thats what..Your happiness should be derived from what do u do and not from anyone else..(even if it is ur spouse)..Am i Wrong??

I will post a part 2 for this...